trying to understand IIT system and yourself with society

As I have already said, my life got changed after minor I , but I tried to learn from my life:
some of the things that I have learned from my life are:
If you are in IIT, then you must follow the rules of IIT. IIT system is one of the best systems in the world. It gives you all the opportunities to improve yourself and to become creative. In IIT, you can go in any field. You get knowledge of each and every field here.The brightest students from India come here and the environment here is too much competitive.You must strive hard to maintain your academic performance being good.
But among all these fighting, you must not forget yourself.You must remember your own identities, your own interests, your own happiness,those things which make you happy, all those things which make you excited....You must remember that your aim here is not just to get a good position, not to just get a good CGPA, not to just get trophies for hostel..
In your life, if you ever had enjoyed anything then , you will surely understand that you must not loose your nature of enjoying.You must be able to enjoy whatever you are doing , whether it be academics, singing,dancing,muzic,sports,meetings,presentations, ..or anything else.You must enjoy each work that you do.
So in IIT, I will suggest to not to be effected by others or environment so much that you forget yourself,. you must remember who you are, what were the things which used to make you feel happy.Though when I see around me, I find most of my friends worried, competetive but sad, tensed in the thinking of intern or job.
Why we all have become so much artificial. why we have forgotten ourselves?
The main answer of this question comes as to be updated with the new advancements of the world, to get a good job which gives you more and more money,to run with the fast changing world. For some of the students of first,second or third year, the cause of tension is also academics, low CGPA, but the ultimate cause is also this that with low CG you will not get good job. So we are living in a world of tensions.
The expectations by ourself from us has become very large now-a-days
, to get higher and higher paid job in less and less time.
The society and media is also one of the reason behind it. If IITian get success, it publishes or broadcasts it vary soon, Newspapers specially publish news related to IITs on the front page. So everyone in our society knows that after passing out of IIT, you get a job worth lacks.

So remember the time when we cleared JEE, a lot of our relatives and friends congratulated us, that was their time to get credit. now our time is to fulfill the responsibility, now everyone in your acquaintance might be expecting from you to earn >10 lack per year after your 4th year. , they usually talk about you to your parents also , so now you and your parents are in a pressure, a peer pressure, pressure of society, a pressure of the expectations....
and you --- only yourself will have to find some way to get out of that pressure or fulfill that.
Now its upto you that how much far you can go according to their expectations. Its really upto you..............................................................